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Razorjack speaks at the Vienna PUA Summit 2005
Here is the audio file from the Vienna PUA Summit 2005. Unfortunately it's hard to understand, because guys are laughing all the time. But it's worth the effort of listening.
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Razorjack: Thinking beyond the medium!
THINK BEYOND THE MEDIUM!
This has always been the core of my PU skills. I’ve always ranted about THINKING BEYOND THE MEDIUM.
Unfortunately not too many people understand what I mean when I say “think beyond the medium”. This post is a pretty good example of what I mean.
Anyways let’s roll! :)
One example is body language. I’m sure everybody here has read TD’s post about the 25 points. It’s a great post. Unfortunately I can’t keep track of all 25 things in my head.
My solution was to just say to myself, “Hey this is who I am and I’m gonna do whatever I have to, to achieve my goals! And if someone else doesn’t like it, then fuck ‘em!”
Then I’m totally relaxed and comfortable when I’m out PUing. Then all of the 25 points fall right into place! I’ll even do things like lean in and it still won’t matter. Why? BECAUSE I DON’T GIVE A FUCK!
The medium here is body language, but in order to fix my BL I had to think beyond BL. I had to think about how I felt about myself instead and fix that.
Here’s some insights I’ve learned about myself lately:
1. Falling into a rhythm:
Ok, you boys know that I run a natural game. I just basically go with whatever I feel and run with it. I don’t try to impress, entertain, run routines, etc when picking up chicks. I just go by what I feel, calibrate slightly to the type of chick I’m talking to and just flow with it.
There are advantages and disadvantages to running this type of game. The biggest advantage is that it makes the game very simple and easy. You don’t need to think, you just flow with the interaction.
Another thing is that you fall into a rhythm or pattern of doing things. This can be both good and bad depending on what that pattern of behavior and your goals are.
When out PUing in a club, I always fall into a rhythm. That rhythm dictates my behavior for the rest of the night. For instance, if I hook up with other people before hitting up the clubs, then I fall into what I call “party mode”.
From there on I get into a rhythm of just going out to have fun and not worrying about picking up chicks. I do approach and talk to chicks but I’m not sexual cuz I’m only out to have fun and don’t focus on any particular target. What usually happens is that at the end of the night, either a chick is really interested and becomes aggressive enough to pick me up or I go home alone.
This has been a problem when guys that I’m “teaching” want to meet and hook up before hitting the clubs. Then I fall into what I call “teaching mode”.
This is where I’m just observing, teaching and helping other guys pick up and get laid. All the while I don’t PU for myself, I do it strictly to help other guys out. This is a bad habit that I picked up. Of course the guys I help out think it’s great! :) But for me it usually turns out to be a waste of an evening. What’s really fucked up is that I don’t even recognize that I get into this mode, so I never get out of it.
Now the time when falling into a particular rhythm fucking ROCKS is when I’m focused on going out to PU and not bullshit around. I can #close several different chicks and still pull a chick the same night back to my place or hers. I’ve done it before lots of times so I know it’s possible. The trick was to figure out how to get this to happen EVERY single time I go out. The answer for me is to decide what my goal is for the night, go out by myself and then just fucking do it.
I can still meet guys when I’m out, but when PUing, I’m PUing.
Haha, I remember a time when one of my “padiwans” asked me if some of his friends could join us, cuz they also wanted to improve their PU skills. I didn’t mind as long as they stayed out of my way. This was when I fell into “PU GOD mode”. :)
I was the first one to arrive in the pub. By the time they showed up, I was already into a 5-set. The chicks all shifted positions so the hottest one moved and sat right next to me. We exchanged numbers and she didn’t want me to leave, all before we even hit the club! Not a bad start! :)
I eject from the 5-set to meet the guys. I tell them right away that I’m not teaching tonight and to just stay the fuck out of my way. I was firing on all cylinders that night! I #closed every target I approached, had chicks buying me tequila shots, setting up a day2 with one chick and then making out with her girlfriend, etc! :)
I’m sure these new guys thought that I was a real asshole! :) But unfortunately this is what I have to do in order to achieve my goals.
The medium here is PU consistency, but in order for me to be more consistent at PU, I had to think beyond PU, routines, openers, etc. I had to look at the way I was behaving in certain situations and why. Then look at how that was affecting my game. Then make the changes in my behavior and BAAAMMM!!!
Better PU consistency! :)
2. How I connect with chicks:
Ever since I found mASF and started to seriously get into the game, I’ve had a tough time feeling any sort of connection with any chick, no matter how HOT she was. I would go out to PU and pull chicks weekend after weekend and feel absolutely NOTHING for them. Last year was a record breaking year for me. I fucked more chicks in that one year then all the other years put together. For those of you who are statistic freaks, it was 40+ chicks. I don’t remember the exact number cuz I never really kept count. Fuck, I don’t even remember half of their names!
But the whole time I felt NOTHING for these chicks, a lot of them wanted relationships and would try to snag me into an LTR, but I would just get bored or they’d turn out to be LSE/psychos and I’d leave them.
After doing the find ‘em, fuck ‘em and forget ‘em thing I was worn out. Let me tell you boys, that shit does wear you down. I wanted to find a nice LTR/mLTR and just enjoy my life a little more. But seriously I just couldn’t connect with chicks. They would be attracted to me and connect with me, but I felt nothing for them. I was starting to accept that maybe this is the way things will always be from now on.
But then it finally happened! I always used to meet chicks in the fuck venue. We’d get together and have sex, that’s it. So I decided to change things a bit.
Then I met this one chick and started doing things with her. We had a great time together and connected on so many levels. It was awesome! For the first time since my LTR of 10 yrs ended, I felt something for a chick.
Don’t worry boys, Razorjack hasn’t developed one-itis! :)
The important thing was to figure out HOW I connected with her. For me it was all about getting away from the club scene, and seeing these chicks in a different light, in a different setting, in a different environment and getting to know them for who they are and ACCEPTING that, while doing fun things together.
I was so happy that I FINALLY was able to do this and it felt great! And the best part?
The best part is knowing that I can recreate this with any chick (as long as they are not LSE psychos!) because it is NOT the chick that makes me feel this way, but ME MAKING MYSELF FEEL THIS WAY! HA! What an epiphany! It’s like waking up from a coma! :)
The medium here is connecting with chicks. Thinking beyond connecting with chicks and more about myself and my behavior, was exactly what I needed to do in order to achieve what I wanted.
So after reading this rant of mine, what did ya boys learn?
Well I’ll tell ya then! The lesson here is:
1. First figure out what your goals are, what you want to achieve, where you want to go, etc.
2. Get to know yourself, how you behave, how you do things, how you motivate yourself, how you learn, etc.
3. Once you understand where you want to go and understand how and why you do the things you do, then change that behavior so you can get what you want!
Solving the problems that I described above wasn’t about new routines, openers, qualifiers, affirmations, etc. It wasn’t even about PU!
It’s beyond the medium, beyond PU!
It was about me learning how I behave and why that was preventing me from getting what I wanted. Then I change that behavior and guess what?
My PU problems are solved without even thinking about PU!
So if you guys are having problems with PU, THINK BEYOND THE MEDIUM!
Razorjack
This has always been the core of my PU skills. I’ve always ranted about THINKING BEYOND THE MEDIUM.
Unfortunately not too many people understand what I mean when I say “think beyond the medium”. This post is a pretty good example of what I mean.
Anyways let’s roll! :)
One example is body language. I’m sure everybody here has read TD’s post about the 25 points. It’s a great post. Unfortunately I can’t keep track of all 25 things in my head.
My solution was to just say to myself, “Hey this is who I am and I’m gonna do whatever I have to, to achieve my goals! And if someone else doesn’t like it, then fuck ‘em!”
Then I’m totally relaxed and comfortable when I’m out PUing. Then all of the 25 points fall right into place! I’ll even do things like lean in and it still won’t matter. Why? BECAUSE I DON’T GIVE A FUCK!
The medium here is body language, but in order to fix my BL I had to think beyond BL. I had to think about how I felt about myself instead and fix that.
Here’s some insights I’ve learned about myself lately:
1. Falling into a rhythm:
Ok, you boys know that I run a natural game. I just basically go with whatever I feel and run with it. I don’t try to impress, entertain, run routines, etc when picking up chicks. I just go by what I feel, calibrate slightly to the type of chick I’m talking to and just flow with it.
There are advantages and disadvantages to running this type of game. The biggest advantage is that it makes the game very simple and easy. You don’t need to think, you just flow with the interaction.
Another thing is that you fall into a rhythm or pattern of doing things. This can be both good and bad depending on what that pattern of behavior and your goals are.
When out PUing in a club, I always fall into a rhythm. That rhythm dictates my behavior for the rest of the night. For instance, if I hook up with other people before hitting up the clubs, then I fall into what I call “party mode”.
From there on I get into a rhythm of just going out to have fun and not worrying about picking up chicks. I do approach and talk to chicks but I’m not sexual cuz I’m only out to have fun and don’t focus on any particular target. What usually happens is that at the end of the night, either a chick is really interested and becomes aggressive enough to pick me up or I go home alone.
This has been a problem when guys that I’m “teaching” want to meet and hook up before hitting the clubs. Then I fall into what I call “teaching mode”.
This is where I’m just observing, teaching and helping other guys pick up and get laid. All the while I don’t PU for myself, I do it strictly to help other guys out. This is a bad habit that I picked up. Of course the guys I help out think it’s great! :) But for me it usually turns out to be a waste of an evening. What’s really fucked up is that I don’t even recognize that I get into this mode, so I never get out of it.
Now the time when falling into a particular rhythm fucking ROCKS is when I’m focused on going out to PU and not bullshit around. I can #close several different chicks and still pull a chick the same night back to my place or hers. I’ve done it before lots of times so I know it’s possible. The trick was to figure out how to get this to happen EVERY single time I go out. The answer for me is to decide what my goal is for the night, go out by myself and then just fucking do it.
I can still meet guys when I’m out, but when PUing, I’m PUing.
Haha, I remember a time when one of my “padiwans” asked me if some of his friends could join us, cuz they also wanted to improve their PU skills. I didn’t mind as long as they stayed out of my way. This was when I fell into “PU GOD mode”. :)
I was the first one to arrive in the pub. By the time they showed up, I was already into a 5-set. The chicks all shifted positions so the hottest one moved and sat right next to me. We exchanged numbers and she didn’t want me to leave, all before we even hit the club! Not a bad start! :)
I eject from the 5-set to meet the guys. I tell them right away that I’m not teaching tonight and to just stay the fuck out of my way. I was firing on all cylinders that night! I #closed every target I approached, had chicks buying me tequila shots, setting up a day2 with one chick and then making out with her girlfriend, etc! :)
I’m sure these new guys thought that I was a real asshole! :) But unfortunately this is what I have to do in order to achieve my goals.
The medium here is PU consistency, but in order for me to be more consistent at PU, I had to think beyond PU, routines, openers, etc. I had to look at the way I was behaving in certain situations and why. Then look at how that was affecting my game. Then make the changes in my behavior and BAAAMMM!!!
Better PU consistency! :)
2. How I connect with chicks:
Ever since I found mASF and started to seriously get into the game, I’ve had a tough time feeling any sort of connection with any chick, no matter how HOT she was. I would go out to PU and pull chicks weekend after weekend and feel absolutely NOTHING for them. Last year was a record breaking year for me. I fucked more chicks in that one year then all the other years put together. For those of you who are statistic freaks, it was 40+ chicks. I don’t remember the exact number cuz I never really kept count. Fuck, I don’t even remember half of their names!
But the whole time I felt NOTHING for these chicks, a lot of them wanted relationships and would try to snag me into an LTR, but I would just get bored or they’d turn out to be LSE/psychos and I’d leave them.
After doing the find ‘em, fuck ‘em and forget ‘em thing I was worn out. Let me tell you boys, that shit does wear you down. I wanted to find a nice LTR/mLTR and just enjoy my life a little more. But seriously I just couldn’t connect with chicks. They would be attracted to me and connect with me, but I felt nothing for them. I was starting to accept that maybe this is the way things will always be from now on.
But then it finally happened! I always used to meet chicks in the fuck venue. We’d get together and have sex, that’s it. So I decided to change things a bit.
Then I met this one chick and started doing things with her. We had a great time together and connected on so many levels. It was awesome! For the first time since my LTR of 10 yrs ended, I felt something for a chick.
Don’t worry boys, Razorjack hasn’t developed one-itis! :)
The important thing was to figure out HOW I connected with her. For me it was all about getting away from the club scene, and seeing these chicks in a different light, in a different setting, in a different environment and getting to know them for who they are and ACCEPTING that, while doing fun things together.
I was so happy that I FINALLY was able to do this and it felt great! And the best part?
The best part is knowing that I can recreate this with any chick (as long as they are not LSE psychos!) because it is NOT the chick that makes me feel this way, but ME MAKING MYSELF FEEL THIS WAY! HA! What an epiphany! It’s like waking up from a coma! :)
The medium here is connecting with chicks. Thinking beyond connecting with chicks and more about myself and my behavior, was exactly what I needed to do in order to achieve what I wanted.
So after reading this rant of mine, what did ya boys learn?
Well I’ll tell ya then! The lesson here is:
1. First figure out what your goals are, what you want to achieve, where you want to go, etc.
2. Get to know yourself, how you behave, how you do things, how you motivate yourself, how you learn, etc.
3. Once you understand where you want to go and understand how and why you do the things you do, then change that behavior so you can get what you want!
Solving the problems that I described above wasn’t about new routines, openers, qualifiers, affirmations, etc. It wasn’t even about PU!
It’s beyond the medium, beyond PU!
It was about me learning how I behave and why that was preventing me from getting what I wanted. Then I change that behavior and guess what?
My PU problems are solved without even thinking about PU!
So if you guys are having problems with PU, THINK BEYOND THE MEDIUM!
Razorjack
Razorjack: Exploiting Power in PU
Wassup playas!
I realized that Power in PU is something that I’ve talked about with those PUAs
I’ve met in real life but never actually posted about, so here it is.
As a PUA, you have so much more power in PU than you realize. A lot of the
things I write about will be pretty obvious but there is hardly anyone that
fully exploits this to their advantage.
All right boys, let’s roll! :)
1. Chicks are always looking for social acceptance and wanting to climb the
social “ladder.” – Let’s face it this is also true for a lot of guys as well.
Chicks are very social creatures and are dependant on a social structure more
so than guys. If you guys haven’t already noticed, chicks do this without even
understanding it themselves. I know this is obvious to experienced guys, but
I’ll include it anyways.
So how does a PUA use this to his advantage?
Easy! If you’re at the top of the social “ladder” then chicks will naturally be
attracted to you.
What I’ve noticed is that when a person is interacting with others, that person
will either be at the top of the social “ladder” or he/she will be a “climber.”
Another thing is that one person can be a “climber” when interacting with
certain people and at the top of the “ladder” with other people. The amazing
thing is that people when at the top of the social “ladder” usually have
similar behaviors and qualities.
So how do you reach the top of the social “ladder”, well there is plenty of
things that can be discussed here like money, social status, etc. Really though
a lot of that is out of our control, so let’s talk about what you do have
control over and how you can use it to your advantage. First of all being such
a cool and fun person that people like and want to get to know. Another thing
is when people get more out of the interaction than you. Another quality is
that you don’t seek the approval of others. When you qualify others up to your
level, you’re automatically perceived as being higher up on the social
“ladder.” Having women already attracted is also a great thing. Basically all
of the stuff we discuss here as good quality traits for PUAs can fit in here.
2. Chicks love validation – Most of you guys know this already, but there are
very few here that actually exploit this.
So how does a PUA exploit this?
Well if you haven’t realize it already, you CONTROL what kind of validation she
gets from you and HOW MUCH she gets. You set this up so you that she gets
validation when you get what you want from her. This requires calibration and
field experience just like everything else, but is a powerful tool to have in
your PU toolbox. An example is that when you qualify chicks, you’re giving her
validation, but that validation isn’t free. First of all she meets one of your
qualifications in order to get validation. Second her meeting your
qualification is an opening for you to escalate to the next level, if she is to
receive more validation. Oh yeah, validation should be given physically rather
than verbally. This means kino, holding her hand, stroking her hair, moving
closer to her, etc.
3. Chicks want attention – Also very obvious to most guys here, but never fully
exploited.
We all know that chicks want attention, but YOU control when and how much
attention she actually gets as well as what form of attention and under what
conditions! :)
This is very powerful indeed. Let’s say a HOT chick INITIATES an interaction
and is giving you plenty of attention. She makes it clear that she’s interested
in you and wants you that same night! You’re playing it real cool and letting
her give you the attention while you’re thinking about how you’re going to fuck
her. You’re letting her do all the chasing. But then she starts to withdraw
some of the attention and you’re wondering what’s going on. She pulls away more
and more of the attention you were getting and now you see your chances with
this girl disappearing. What happens then?
Well when I was still learning the game, I did whatever I could to try and get
that attention back! Does this sound familiar to you guys?
Guess what chicks do the same thing! You give a chick plenty of your attention
when she’s treating you the way you WANT her to treat you and you withdraw the
attention when you want to correct her behavior. This is power! :)
4. 99.9% of guys out there are boring AFCs – I can’t be sure exactly what the
percent of AFCs actually are in the world, but this is definitely what my
experience tells me about western societies.
When you’re an exciting and passionate guy, you automatically separate yourself
from 99.9% of the guys out there and women notice you instantly! Now if women
see you as a rare find, then they will want to get to know you. And of course
you use this to your advantage! :)
5. Chicks love sex just as much if not more than guys – We’ve talked about this
quite a bit on this forum, but the catch is that women want good sex with guys
they’re attracted to.
If you are a good lover and know how to pleasure women, then you have something
that women WANT! Combine this with the fact that you are NOT like the AFCs out
there and guess what? Chicks can tell that you’re attractive to other chicks
and this is what I call effortless attraction. Chicks are instantly thinking
about sex with you. You haven't even done anything and you’re already ahead of
the competition!
6. Chicks want to meet guys – That’s right boys, chicks want to meet you and
guess what?
If you think about the fact that most guys are AFCs and don’t approach chicks
at all and that the majority of guys that do approach, bore them to death with
interrogation like “What do you do?”, “Where are you from?”, etc well what kind
of competition do you think you guys have?
When you talk about your passions in life and are screening her for
compatibility, you are seen as someone special and NOT like all the other guys!
:)
7. Attractive chicks want to be attractive to ALL guys including guys they’re
not attracted to – I’ve talked about this several times before but never really
explained how a PUA could use this to his advantage.
This is exactly why negs work on hot chicks. When you don’t find them
attractive, they’ll do whatever they can so you’ll find them attractive. I’m
not advocating for or against using negs, do what you feel comfortable with.
What I personally do is show chicks with my behavior and the way I’m
interacting with them, that certain behavior from her makes her less attractive
to me.
If for instance, a chick is resisting when I’m trying to escalate, I will let
her know in so many words that I’m a passionate guy with needs and that if she
doesn’t want a passionate guy that wants to kiss her, have sex with her, etc,
then I’m the wrong guy for her. Basically disqualifying myself, which means
that I’m less attracted to her if she behaves like that.
8. Chicks will adapt to whatever frame you set – The more experienced guys will
know exactly what I’m talking about here.
So this is really for the less experienced guys. Remember point 1 where I talk
about how chicks are looking for social acceptance? Well this is something
similar to that, except that you exploit it to a much greater degree when you
open.
If you’re a cool and fun guy, then she’ll naturally recognize this and want to
get to know you. Now YOU can decide how you WANT to set up the frame of the
interaction. For instance, if you open with an opinion opener then the frame is
neutral. If you open with C&F, disinterest or whatever, then you’re setting up
an indirect frame. Since I run direct game nowadays, I’m setting up a frame,
where it’s about the 2 of us getting together from the very beginning without
bullshitting around.
Whatever frame you set up doesn’t matter as long as you can work within it, the
most important part is that YOU control how you set up the whole interaction.
OK after reading about all the power you have in PU, how silly does it sound to
waste it on trying to entertain or impress your target?
How much sense does it make to bullshit around with trying to attract her or
getting her to chase you instead of actually going up to a chick and setting up
the interaction to where it’s about you and her getting together?
Are you guys getting what I’m saying here? YOU have much more power in a PU
than you know, USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE! :)
Razorjack
I realized that Power in PU is something that I’ve talked about with those PUAs
I’ve met in real life but never actually posted about, so here it is.
As a PUA, you have so much more power in PU than you realize. A lot of the
things I write about will be pretty obvious but there is hardly anyone that
fully exploits this to their advantage.
All right boys, let’s roll! :)
1. Chicks are always looking for social acceptance and wanting to climb the
social “ladder.” – Let’s face it this is also true for a lot of guys as well.
Chicks are very social creatures and are dependant on a social structure more
so than guys. If you guys haven’t already noticed, chicks do this without even
understanding it themselves. I know this is obvious to experienced guys, but
I’ll include it anyways.
So how does a PUA use this to his advantage?
Easy! If you’re at the top of the social “ladder” then chicks will naturally be
attracted to you.
What I’ve noticed is that when a person is interacting with others, that person
will either be at the top of the social “ladder” or he/she will be a “climber.”
Another thing is that one person can be a “climber” when interacting with
certain people and at the top of the “ladder” with other people. The amazing
thing is that people when at the top of the social “ladder” usually have
similar behaviors and qualities.
So how do you reach the top of the social “ladder”, well there is plenty of
things that can be discussed here like money, social status, etc. Really though
a lot of that is out of our control, so let’s talk about what you do have
control over and how you can use it to your advantage. First of all being such
a cool and fun person that people like and want to get to know. Another thing
is when people get more out of the interaction than you. Another quality is
that you don’t seek the approval of others. When you qualify others up to your
level, you’re automatically perceived as being higher up on the social
“ladder.” Having women already attracted is also a great thing. Basically all
of the stuff we discuss here as good quality traits for PUAs can fit in here.
2. Chicks love validation – Most of you guys know this already, but there are
very few here that actually exploit this.
So how does a PUA exploit this?
Well if you haven’t realize it already, you CONTROL what kind of validation she
gets from you and HOW MUCH she gets. You set this up so you that she gets
validation when you get what you want from her. This requires calibration and
field experience just like everything else, but is a powerful tool to have in
your PU toolbox. An example is that when you qualify chicks, you’re giving her
validation, but that validation isn’t free. First of all she meets one of your
qualifications in order to get validation. Second her meeting your
qualification is an opening for you to escalate to the next level, if she is to
receive more validation. Oh yeah, validation should be given physically rather
than verbally. This means kino, holding her hand, stroking her hair, moving
closer to her, etc.
3. Chicks want attention – Also very obvious to most guys here, but never fully
exploited.
We all know that chicks want attention, but YOU control when and how much
attention she actually gets as well as what form of attention and under what
conditions! :)
This is very powerful indeed. Let’s say a HOT chick INITIATES an interaction
and is giving you plenty of attention. She makes it clear that she’s interested
in you and wants you that same night! You’re playing it real cool and letting
her give you the attention while you’re thinking about how you’re going to fuck
her. You’re letting her do all the chasing. But then she starts to withdraw
some of the attention and you’re wondering what’s going on. She pulls away more
and more of the attention you were getting and now you see your chances with
this girl disappearing. What happens then?
Well when I was still learning the game, I did whatever I could to try and get
that attention back! Does this sound familiar to you guys?
Guess what chicks do the same thing! You give a chick plenty of your attention
when she’s treating you the way you WANT her to treat you and you withdraw the
attention when you want to correct her behavior. This is power! :)
4. 99.9% of guys out there are boring AFCs – I can’t be sure exactly what the
percent of AFCs actually are in the world, but this is definitely what my
experience tells me about western societies.
When you’re an exciting and passionate guy, you automatically separate yourself
from 99.9% of the guys out there and women notice you instantly! Now if women
see you as a rare find, then they will want to get to know you. And of course
you use this to your advantage! :)
5. Chicks love sex just as much if not more than guys – We’ve talked about this
quite a bit on this forum, but the catch is that women want good sex with guys
they’re attracted to.
If you are a good lover and know how to pleasure women, then you have something
that women WANT! Combine this with the fact that you are NOT like the AFCs out
there and guess what? Chicks can tell that you’re attractive to other chicks
and this is what I call effortless attraction. Chicks are instantly thinking
about sex with you. You haven't even done anything and you’re already ahead of
the competition!
6. Chicks want to meet guys – That’s right boys, chicks want to meet you and
guess what?
If you think about the fact that most guys are AFCs and don’t approach chicks
at all and that the majority of guys that do approach, bore them to death with
interrogation like “What do you do?”, “Where are you from?”, etc well what kind
of competition do you think you guys have?
When you talk about your passions in life and are screening her for
compatibility, you are seen as someone special and NOT like all the other guys!
:)
7. Attractive chicks want to be attractive to ALL guys including guys they’re
not attracted to – I’ve talked about this several times before but never really
explained how a PUA could use this to his advantage.
This is exactly why negs work on hot chicks. When you don’t find them
attractive, they’ll do whatever they can so you’ll find them attractive. I’m
not advocating for or against using negs, do what you feel comfortable with.
What I personally do is show chicks with my behavior and the way I’m
interacting with them, that certain behavior from her makes her less attractive
to me.
If for instance, a chick is resisting when I’m trying to escalate, I will let
her know in so many words that I’m a passionate guy with needs and that if she
doesn’t want a passionate guy that wants to kiss her, have sex with her, etc,
then I’m the wrong guy for her. Basically disqualifying myself, which means
that I’m less attracted to her if she behaves like that.
8. Chicks will adapt to whatever frame you set – The more experienced guys will
know exactly what I’m talking about here.
So this is really for the less experienced guys. Remember point 1 where I talk
about how chicks are looking for social acceptance? Well this is something
similar to that, except that you exploit it to a much greater degree when you
open.
If you’re a cool and fun guy, then she’ll naturally recognize this and want to
get to know you. Now YOU can decide how you WANT to set up the frame of the
interaction. For instance, if you open with an opinion opener then the frame is
neutral. If you open with C&F, disinterest or whatever, then you’re setting up
an indirect frame. Since I run direct game nowadays, I’m setting up a frame,
where it’s about the 2 of us getting together from the very beginning without
bullshitting around.
Whatever frame you set up doesn’t matter as long as you can work within it, the
most important part is that YOU control how you set up the whole interaction.
OK after reading about all the power you have in PU, how silly does it sound to
waste it on trying to entertain or impress your target?
How much sense does it make to bullshit around with trying to attract her or
getting her to chase you instead of actually going up to a chick and setting up
the interaction to where it’s about you and her getting together?
Are you guys getting what I’m saying here? YOU have much more power in a PU
than you know, USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE! :)
Razorjack
Razorjack: How do YOU want to PU?
Wassup playas!
All right boys I feel like my game is about to take a giant leap to the next
level. I’m gonna share some stuff I’ve been working on to improve my game as
well as compare my game before and after these changes.
One word of caution to the newbies:
The stuff I'll be discussing here is WAY over your head. Go out, sarge, get
some field experience and a few notches on your bed post before trying this
stuff.
The biggest key so far is that I’ve started to PU the way I WANT to PU instead
of how I’m supposed to PU. I bet a lot of you are thinking, “WTF are you
talking about, Razorjack?”
OK, what I’m trying to show you guys with this is how you design routines,
tactics/techs, PU styles, methods, etc to suit YOU, instead of you conforming
to someone else’s methods, styles, etc.
All right, roll with me here boys. I used to PU with the notions that:
1. I shouldn’t validate chicks
2. Not give them too much attention
3. I should be indirect, not show interest right away
4. I should qualify chicks before they get attention from me
5. I should kino chicks as a reward for their good behavior
6. etc etc
Now when I read this list, I just see a bunch of rules that I had to confine
to. Now even with these restrictions I did pretty well. I mean I got more pussy
in that 1 year then all of the previous years in my life put together.
But we all want to improve, become better than we are and of course have fun
doing it. What I realized was that this was a very restrictive way to PU.
Seriously guys read that list, it’s so fucking negative and passive, at least
IMO. What happened was that I got a bunch of information in my head and I
CONFORMED to those restrictions without even realizing it.
Now compare that way of PU to this:
How about I PU the way I WANT to PU? What do I WANT to happen? OK here’s a new
list:
1. I WANT chicks to know that I’m a sexual being
2. I WANT chicks to respond positively to me
3. I WANT chicks to be attracted to me FAST
4. I WANT to convey value FAST
5. I WANT chicks to respond in certain ways to me
6. etc etc
OK this list isn’t complete, but it’s a good start. Now we all know that
there’s more than one way to attract, more than one way to convey value, more
than one way to PU, etc.
The easiest way to learn IMO is by example, so now I’ll go over what my game is
like today and the changes I made to get it to where it’s at today.
If we take the first point, “I WANT chicks to know that I’m a sexual being.”
I had to make some changes in my game to achieve this. Before I was very
indirect with disqualifying myself, the chicks etc, cuz I thought that was what
I was suppose to do to get the chicks attracted. Don’t get me wrong, it worked
OK, but now I’m much more direct physically.
Now when I go in with an opener, I usually have my arm around the chick’s waist
before the first word even comes out of my mouth. If there’s 2 or more in the
set, I’ll go straight up to the target and the chick next to her and get in
both of their “personal” spaces and put my arm around both of them. Now my
target knows right away, that I’m not afraid to touch girls, even those that I
haven’t met yet.
Let’s take the next 2 points on the list, “I WANT chicks to respond positively
to me” and “I WANT chicks to be attracted to me FAST”.
OK when I used to take a more indirect approach and style, I’d crack jokes, use
interesting stories, ask opinions, etc to get chicks to respond positively, but
the attraction part was sometimes there, sometimes not. So what I do now with
kinoing chicks from the get go, the chicks FEEL great that a nice looking, fun
guy is interested in them. The majority of chicks out there including those
that have bfs, are married, etc are so fucking lonely and bored, it’s really
very, very sad.
When I go in and kino chicks, I kino them and talk to them like they’re already
my girlfriend. Guess what this does, boys?
The chicks FEEL great about themselves thanks to me, so they respond positively
to me. Not only does this attract the chicks I’m with but other chicks around
me see me with my arms around my targets and that my targets are LOVING it! Can
you say SOCIAL PROOF?!! :)
This is attraction FAST. Don’t forget that my targets notice the other chicks
looking at us and they’re LOVING the attention, so they don’t want me to leave!
:)
Next point on the list “I WANT to convey value FAST”.
I know what you guys are thinking “This is easy, Razorjack, just DHV.” Well
that’s what I thought first as well, but IMO DHV is about you showing value
through stories, gimmicks, etc then not only does your story, gimmick, etc need
to convey value, but the chick needs to pick up on this. That’s too indirect
for me, with a very small margin for error.
Let me give you another alternative.
I just love pleasuring chicks and making them feel good about themselves. So
this is what I do and focus on via kino, massaging, complimenting them on
things other than their beauty, etc. This is direct and conveying value
straight to the target. The best part is that some of this is also seen by
other chicks and of course the other chicks want a part of this as well. The
whole point is that SHE gets more out of the interaction with YOU, than you get
from her. Can you say higher value?
I bet some guys here are thinking, “Well isn’t this just validating her,
supplicating and all that other bullshit?”
My opinion is that if you think it is then that’s the way you’re target will
interpret it. What I do is come from a 10000000 times stronger frame then her.
I actually get as much pleasure from the stuff I’m doing as she does. So in the
end, it’s me doing things that I KNOW we both would enjoy.
OK, next point, “I WANT chicks to respond in certain ways to me.”
I hadn’t even thought about this before, this is something that I decided I
want to inject into my way of PU. I always want her being active and working
for my attention in the PU. I still don’t have this down completely, but I’m
getting better and better at it every time I go out to sarge.
This takes a bit of calibration, but here’s 2 ways I do it:
1. If she’s the party type of chick, then I’ll go direct physically, while
being indirect and disqualifying verbally. The whole time I’ll be saying shit
like “You know HB, if we weren’t so alike, it would be me and you baby, we’d be
like soul mates”, while I got my arm around her waist. This occupies her
logical brain of trying to seduce you, but you still have kino going and
getting her comfortable with you.
2. If she’s not the party type of chick then instead of qualifying her, I’ll
GIVE her all the qualities and behaviors I want in a woman. Then the idea is to
make her live up to those qualities and behaviors. So this will keep her on her
toes and WORKING to stay valuable in your eyes. Of course the whole time my arm
is around her waist and we’re close together physically building comfort.
So am I saying that direct is better than indirect or that you shouldn’t DHV?
NO!!
What I’m saying is that you need to figure out, what it is you WANT and design
routines, style, etc around that, rather than restricting yourself to other
guys' tactics/techs, style, etc.
If you look at most of the stuff I wrote about the changes I made, I broke so
many of the “rules” here on mASF, I should be banned! Shame on you, Razorjack!
:)
Just kidding, what I’m saying is this boys:
NO RESTRICTIONS, NO RULES, NO BULLSHIT
How do YOU want to PU?
Keep on mackin’ playas!
Razorjack
All right boys I feel like my game is about to take a giant leap to the next
level. I’m gonna share some stuff I’ve been working on to improve my game as
well as compare my game before and after these changes.
One word of caution to the newbies:
The stuff I'll be discussing here is WAY over your head. Go out, sarge, get
some field experience and a few notches on your bed post before trying this
stuff.
The biggest key so far is that I’ve started to PU the way I WANT to PU instead
of how I’m supposed to PU. I bet a lot of you are thinking, “WTF are you
talking about, Razorjack?”
OK, what I’m trying to show you guys with this is how you design routines,
tactics/techs, PU styles, methods, etc to suit YOU, instead of you conforming
to someone else’s methods, styles, etc.
All right, roll with me here boys. I used to PU with the notions that:
1. I shouldn’t validate chicks
2. Not give them too much attention
3. I should be indirect, not show interest right away
4. I should qualify chicks before they get attention from me
5. I should kino chicks as a reward for their good behavior
6. etc etc
Now when I read this list, I just see a bunch of rules that I had to confine
to. Now even with these restrictions I did pretty well. I mean I got more pussy
in that 1 year then all of the previous years in my life put together.
But we all want to improve, become better than we are and of course have fun
doing it. What I realized was that this was a very restrictive way to PU.
Seriously guys read that list, it’s so fucking negative and passive, at least
IMO. What happened was that I got a bunch of information in my head and I
CONFORMED to those restrictions without even realizing it.
Now compare that way of PU to this:
How about I PU the way I WANT to PU? What do I WANT to happen? OK here’s a new
list:
1. I WANT chicks to know that I’m a sexual being
2. I WANT chicks to respond positively to me
3. I WANT chicks to be attracted to me FAST
4. I WANT to convey value FAST
5. I WANT chicks to respond in certain ways to me
6. etc etc
OK this list isn’t complete, but it’s a good start. Now we all know that
there’s more than one way to attract, more than one way to convey value, more
than one way to PU, etc.
The easiest way to learn IMO is by example, so now I’ll go over what my game is
like today and the changes I made to get it to where it’s at today.
If we take the first point, “I WANT chicks to know that I’m a sexual being.”
I had to make some changes in my game to achieve this. Before I was very
indirect with disqualifying myself, the chicks etc, cuz I thought that was what
I was suppose to do to get the chicks attracted. Don’t get me wrong, it worked
OK, but now I’m much more direct physically.
Now when I go in with an opener, I usually have my arm around the chick’s waist
before the first word even comes out of my mouth. If there’s 2 or more in the
set, I’ll go straight up to the target and the chick next to her and get in
both of their “personal” spaces and put my arm around both of them. Now my
target knows right away, that I’m not afraid to touch girls, even those that I
haven’t met yet.
Let’s take the next 2 points on the list, “I WANT chicks to respond positively
to me” and “I WANT chicks to be attracted to me FAST”.
OK when I used to take a more indirect approach and style, I’d crack jokes, use
interesting stories, ask opinions, etc to get chicks to respond positively, but
the attraction part was sometimes there, sometimes not. So what I do now with
kinoing chicks from the get go, the chicks FEEL great that a nice looking, fun
guy is interested in them. The majority of chicks out there including those
that have bfs, are married, etc are so fucking lonely and bored, it’s really
very, very sad.
When I go in and kino chicks, I kino them and talk to them like they’re already
my girlfriend. Guess what this does, boys?
The chicks FEEL great about themselves thanks to me, so they respond positively
to me. Not only does this attract the chicks I’m with but other chicks around
me see me with my arms around my targets and that my targets are LOVING it! Can
you say SOCIAL PROOF?!! :)
This is attraction FAST. Don’t forget that my targets notice the other chicks
looking at us and they’re LOVING the attention, so they don’t want me to leave!
:)
Next point on the list “I WANT to convey value FAST”.
I know what you guys are thinking “This is easy, Razorjack, just DHV.” Well
that’s what I thought first as well, but IMO DHV is about you showing value
through stories, gimmicks, etc then not only does your story, gimmick, etc need
to convey value, but the chick needs to pick up on this. That’s too indirect
for me, with a very small margin for error.
Let me give you another alternative.
I just love pleasuring chicks and making them feel good about themselves. So
this is what I do and focus on via kino, massaging, complimenting them on
things other than their beauty, etc. This is direct and conveying value
straight to the target. The best part is that some of this is also seen by
other chicks and of course the other chicks want a part of this as well. The
whole point is that SHE gets more out of the interaction with YOU, than you get
from her. Can you say higher value?
I bet some guys here are thinking, “Well isn’t this just validating her,
supplicating and all that other bullshit?”
My opinion is that if you think it is then that’s the way you’re target will
interpret it. What I do is come from a 10000000 times stronger frame then her.
I actually get as much pleasure from the stuff I’m doing as she does. So in the
end, it’s me doing things that I KNOW we both would enjoy.
OK, next point, “I WANT chicks to respond in certain ways to me.”
I hadn’t even thought about this before, this is something that I decided I
want to inject into my way of PU. I always want her being active and working
for my attention in the PU. I still don’t have this down completely, but I’m
getting better and better at it every time I go out to sarge.
This takes a bit of calibration, but here’s 2 ways I do it:
1. If she’s the party type of chick, then I’ll go direct physically, while
being indirect and disqualifying verbally. The whole time I’ll be saying shit
like “You know HB, if we weren’t so alike, it would be me and you baby, we’d be
like soul mates”, while I got my arm around her waist. This occupies her
logical brain of trying to seduce you, but you still have kino going and
getting her comfortable with you.
2. If she’s not the party type of chick then instead of qualifying her, I’ll
GIVE her all the qualities and behaviors I want in a woman. Then the idea is to
make her live up to those qualities and behaviors. So this will keep her on her
toes and WORKING to stay valuable in your eyes. Of course the whole time my arm
is around her waist and we’re close together physically building comfort.
So am I saying that direct is better than indirect or that you shouldn’t DHV?
NO!!
What I’m saying is that you need to figure out, what it is you WANT and design
routines, style, etc around that, rather than restricting yourself to other
guys' tactics/techs, style, etc.
If you look at most of the stuff I wrote about the changes I made, I broke so
many of the “rules” here on mASF, I should be banned! Shame on you, Razorjack!
:)
Just kidding, what I’m saying is this boys:
NO RESTRICTIONS, NO RULES, NO BULLSHIT
How do YOU want to PU?
Keep on mackin’ playas!
Razorjack
Razorjack: Coming full circle
What I wanted to do with this post was to give you boys a glimpse at how my PU skills have progressed from my pre-ASF days to where I am now.
Hopefully this will help some of you see yourselves in my past experiences and to see your own path to pick up mastery.
All right let's roll! :)
In my early teens, I was never one of the "cool" kids. I couldn't get any chick to look at me, much less the hot ones that I really wanted. Then during the midteens I started changing the way I dressed, throwing on ripped jeans, tank tops, letting my hair grow out, etc, remember this was back in the cheesy 80s! :)
Anyways just changing the way I looked gave me self-confidence and BAM! Chicks started noticing me! I got my first girlfriend, which only lasted about 1 month, but what the heck I got the first one out of the way! :)
Then things could only get easier! :)
I would naturally peacock back then and get attention from chicks all the time. I didn't fuck as many chicks as I would've liked but it wasn't until I discovered ASF that I realized that I was and still am somewhat of a natural.
What convinced me of that was the summer and fall after I graduated from high school. I was working in a movie theatre to save up some money for college. The theatre was in the middle of a shopping mall, so there were plenty of hot chicks everywhere! :)
There were 22 people working in the theatre with me, 12 chicks and 10 guys. Of those 12 chicks, 8 were hot enough to fuck while the rest were just UGs. Of those 8 chicks I got together with 6 of them! :)
Hehehe, one of those 6 happened to be the manager! :)
Now I got to fuck some of them, but due to logistcs I didn't get all of them, it sucks not having a place of your own or your own car! So I feel for you guys in this situation.
Now this wasn't all, I got to know some chicks that worked in the other shops in the mall and they would often drop by the theatre where I worked and say hi. Sometimes other chicks that I met through social circles would call me at work. It was usually one of the other chicks that I had already gotten together with that would answer the phone when chicks would call me.
Man I would give my left arm just to be able to go back in time to see the sparks flying at that theatre! Chicks that were interested or the ones that I already got together with seeing and hearing about other chicks that were interested or that I got together with! Hehehe! :)
Anyways like most naturals, I could only attract chicks that I would meet through work or social circles, but I never had the balls to actually do cold approaches.
So these glory days were over when I went off to college and had to start all over with social circles. Hanging out with guys that never even talked to chicks before certainly didn't help much. So I had a dry spell for a couple of years.
Then I started working as a professional guitar player and playing in bands, etc. Then the chicks were back again! After playing large nightclubs and other top gigs, chicks would be throwing their pussies at us! :)
Anyways this time period didn't require much in terms of PU skills to pick up chicks, but it did teach me a couple of things about how people and chicks, in particular, view society.
Then I met my ex-LTR and fell in love with her. Moved from the good old USA to live in Sweden so I could live with my "beloved". We were together for 10 yrs and I would notice that other chicks were attracted, but I never had the balls to pursue it since I was in an LTR.
Anyways it all ended after 10 yrs and I was back to square one. I had become so dependent on my LTR that I no longer had any self confidence when it came to attracting other chicks.
So I start going out and trying to pick up chicks. Now what was funny was I noticed that chicks were still interested in meeting me. I got together with a few of them but most after having met me would lose interest and I hit semi-dry spell.
Then lo and behold I discover ASF! I was hooked right away and started reading up on everything I could get hold of. I would hit the night clubs and try to implement what I read about.
Now what was messing me up was running attraction routines/gimmicks/scripts etc. I never needed to do that stuff before but I got caught up in the AFC way of thinking. What I never took into account was that I was a natural to begin with, while almost all of the other guys on the board were recovering from AFCness.
So I would run these routines/scripts/etc cuz that was what I read had to be done in order to attract chicks. It felt awkward doing push/pull, DHV and all that other stuff and it was very counter-productive. So the first 7 months I got NOTHING!
Then getting sick and tired of not getting past the first few minutes in a PU, I just told myself to fuck routines and go with whatever I felt.
This is when I noticed the chicks started to respond better to me and 2 months later BAAMMMM! I finally "got it" and one month later I came up with Razorjack Method.
I went back to what I was doing in my late teens when I was working at that movie theatre except now I was applying it to cold PU as well as social circles.
I realized that the way I saw PU wasn't at all like MM, GWM, Juggler, SS, DYD, etc. Even though most successful PUAs usually do things that are very similar to each other, the way they think and how they see PU is very different and that is why there are different PU methods out there.
The following 2 years my game just exploded as I discovered new insights and polished my PU skills more and more. This where I discovered the Asshole Rock Star style and came up with the "How do YOU want to PU" posts. The amount of pussy rolling in was just unbelievable, the amount of chicks that were attracted that I never got to hook up with was even more staggering.
During the last 2 years as I posted more and more on this board I realized that it was difficult for alot of the guys on this board to grasp what my method was about because I didn't have a series of steps or scritps to follow.
There are positives and negatives to this. The positive is that I tried to design a method suited to the individual rather than a one size fits all concept. It's supposed to be natural and dynamic. And in order to be natural, the PUA needs to know who he is on a very deep level so that everything he does is an extension of who he is.
The negative is that since my method is very natural and dynamic, it isn't for guys who want a series of steps or scripts to run.
The other negative thing is teaching guys. I just couldn't tell guys well just do this and this and this and that and you'll get laid. I had to dig into their persona to find out the what the heart of their problems were and then figure out ways to fix that. Let me tell you that it is very time consuming when all you got to work with are posts on an internet forum and that takes alot of effort and energy to do.
BUT I now know that RJM works since I've met and taught guys IRL. It's awesome to watch guys take what you tell them, adapt it to their persona and attract chicks with it! :)
OK so where am I at now?
Well I'm at point where I can naturally attract the hottest chicks at night clubs by just standing around and not doing a damn thing. I won't attract EVERY chick but any guy that goes with me can see the whole night club erupt with AI/IOIs. It's gotten to the point where AI/IOIs are as plain and bland as eating corn flakes for breakfast. I ignore all that shit now and just approach any chick I feel like.
I realized that I can attract most chicks that I find attractive.
Does this mean that I fuck every chick I approach?
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
There is a huge gap between getting initial attraction and getting the chick naked and spreading her legs. There are also other variables like maybe her already having a bf or me screening her out for various reasons, etc.
But I'm still learning and the key area for me to improve upon is creating a strong deep connection with a chick, where I actually feel something for the chick.
It sucks that there is so little information on doing this. But in a way I guess that's the challenge of it all and what still keeps me in the game! :)
Anyways I'm finished with the ranting! :)
Razorjack
Razorjack: A word about women
OK, let’s talk about the objects of our desires. The whole reason why you want to learn Razorjack Method! :)
All right first a little history lesson. This is in no way provable fact, it’s rather my own personal opinion of why things are the way they are today in western societies. This way of thinking works for me and I don’t think I’m too far off.
Try and bear with me here! :)
I believe that nature gave us certain behavior and desires in order to increase our chances for survival. For instance, nature gave us a sex drive so that we would reproduce and keep our species alive and evolving. I believe nature gave us the feeling of attraction in order to choose mates that would increase the chances of survival for our offspring.
Back in the caveman days, a physically strong and intelligent man could live out in the wilderness by himself. He could hunt and kill animals and still survive fairly well. He isn’t dependant on anyone else except himself for his own survival. Women on the other hand were incapable of doing this. They were, and still are physically weaker and slower than the average man. They also had the burden of pregnancy and child-care, which also didn’t help their chances of survival alone. They were dependant on others, whether it’s men, other women, etc. They were dependant on a society.
OK, so now that we made it clear that women needed a society of some sort for survival, you need to understand that all societies have a social structure. Now when choosing a mate from this social structure, who do you think the women were most attracted to? Who would they choose for mating?
I would say the man who was the leader of the group who was more than likely the strongest and most experienced in survival skills. Why? Because this would insure her offspring’s and her own survival. So all of the women tried to climb up to the highest rung of the social ladder where the “Alpha” male was. And the Alpha male got all of the pussy in his social group. This is very common in the animal kingdom and I believe that as humans we still have these instincts.
So ten thousand years later when societies became larger and larger, all of the beta males are tired of not getting any pussy. Being intelligent in their own way and knowing that women weren’t allowed certain privileges afforded only to men, such as being able to work, make their own money, vote, etc, beta men came up with things like arranged marriages, monogamy and 1-on-1 relationships as being the ideal. Combined with social pressure, it was completely unacceptable for women to live alone or raise children outside of marriage. Women who weren’t married were the outcasts of society. More often then not, women had no say in which man they could marry. Men could pay dowries to the woman’s families or just negotiate with the woman’s father for marriage. This way the beta males could get pussy, even though they were not the most desirable men in society. And this is successful for a while.
Now we get to modern society, where women are NOT dependant on men for survival. They can go out into the world, make a living and have successful careers. Women can now decide and choose for themselves which men they want.
So which men are these women attracted to? Who would they choose as mates, boyfriends, lovers, etc?
Of course it goes back to their natural instincts, where it was the male on the top rung of the social ladder. Today these are famous people, rock stars, actors, professional athletes, millionaires, successful businessmen, etc.
Believe it or not women are trying to get us just as much if not more than we are trying to get them. But they are trying to get men higher up on the social ladder. They want to climb up as high as they can. This is completely natural and instinctual to them. This also explains why they behave the way they do. They will always try to fit in whatever situation is presented to them. This is why women say one thing and do another. They will say things that are socially accepted, but do things that their emotions and instincts tell them to.
For instance, if they think they can climb higher up the social ladder by being sexually provocative in certain situations, then they will do just that. This explains why certain women behave the way they do in clubs and bars. Women will change their behavior completely in order to fit in different situations and they will try to out do their female competition if they think they have a chance.
A woman will even use the social status of her man to try and climb OVER him. An example of this is where women will stay with a man and until she tires of him and then leave him when a “better” man comes along.
You know we can sit here and say that it’s immoral and disgusting behavior, but we can’t blame women for being what nature has programmed them to be. This is who they are.
Just like nature designed us to men go out and spread our genes by giving us the desire to have sex with many women.
Women also react to what their emotions dictate rather than logic. When you remove the social implications, most women will make decisions based on their emotions and how they feel.
So armed with this knowledge, we will use a woman’s instincts to our advantage to attract them the way they were designed to be attracted! :)
Razorjack
Razorjack: The Basics
Before you can go and PU chicks, you need to have the basics down.
The first thing is to get your head right. You need to understand and find out what you have of value to women. Let’s do a little exercise:
Imagine that you work for an elite fashion model agency. It's your job to go out and recruit new talent, tomorrow's top female supermodels. Ok I know you're getting a hard on now, but try and pay attention. :)
Ok, now your office is full of hot women that would be willing to do anything for you just so you would pick them. When you are trying to discover the next supermodel how would you act in front of all the hot candidates in your office? Do you think you would have to ask for sex or would it just come as part of the job? Would you go around trying to impress the candidates or is it the candidates' job to try and impress you? Knowing that there are 200 hot and willing women in the room, would you try and come up with some clever sneaky way to sex one of the candidates or would you just tell her "let's go"?
I know you're thinking that this would be a dream scenario and impossible for ordinary guys. I agree, it would require a tremendous amount of luck to get a job like that. But it doesn't require anything to adopt that frame of mind. This is the core essence of RJM.
Those model candidates would flock to the recruiting agent because he is the only one who could give them what they've dreamed of. RJM is based on the idea that the PUA KNOWS he has something of such rare quality that women would flock to him without hesitation. If you don't believe you have anything of such rare quality than you should stop right here, RJM is not for you. You'd be better off with one of the other methods.
So what is this rare quality that I'm referring to? Well I can't tell you, only you can answer this. Remember earlier where I mentioned that my method is not a One-Size-Fits-All method rather it’s designed to fit around the individual’s personality and beliefs, well this is what I meant. This is not easy, it takes time and a lot of soul-searching. You have to find out exactly what your beliefs are, what your best and worst qualities are, what your reality is, etc. This is a lot harder than it sounds, because as humans we tend to change and evolve.
OK, now that I've filled your head with plenty of abstract information, let me explain what my rare quality is and how I acquired it.
In order for me to find out what kind of person I am, I had to ask myself some questions. I suggest anyone wanting to learn Razorjack Method do the same and be COMPLETELY honest here, DO NOT MENTAL MASTURBATE!
1. Why would any chick want me? (Make a list here explaining why)
2. What do I have that she would want? (Make a list here with all your qualities)
3. What am I willing to give a chick that I want? (Make a list of things that YOU like doing and that you know chicks would also enjoy)
4. How would I treat a chick that I let into my life? (Make a list of the special treatment a chick can get from you if you let her into your world)
5. Are the qualities I have valuable to me? (I hope you can answer, yes, b/c if they're are valuable to you then they can also be valuable to others)
6. Knowing that I have these special qualities (from question #2), who is the most important person in my life? (You should know the answer to this one)
7. Now that I know how special I am, who would get more out of a PU, me or the chick?
8. Knowing that the chick would have a lot more to gain than me out of an interaction, would ANY and ALL chicks be lucky to have me in their lives?
9. Knowing that ANY chick would be lucky to have me in their life, if she doesn't realize this then is there something wrong with me or is this particular chick too stupid to realize just how lucky she is?
10. Knowing that I'm as valuable as a Ferrari on the car market, do I need to convince anyone to drive a Ferrari or does the Ferrari sell it self? If this chick doesn't realize how lucky she is, do I need to convince her she's making a mistake or do I give the 11 hotter chicks, standing behind her (that would LOVE to have me in their life), a chance?
12. Now that I have something valuable for EVERY women in the world, what qualities should she have in order for me to let her in my life? (make a list of the qualities you want in a woman)
13. What are the rules people have to follow in order to stay a part of my life?(make a list of the rules women or anyone for that matter must follow in order to have you in their lives)
There are probably 1000 more questions to list here, but you get the idea. Understand that these are questions are suited for me and this is what I needed, you may need to modify these questions, come up with your own or not need all of them. It all depends on who you are and what’s missing in your personality.
I found out that I am a very generous person towards people that I feel deserve my generosity. So my mindset is that I am giving a rare gift to any woman I PU. I know what you're thinking: "well what the hell is your rare gift, Razorjack?"
Well since I'm a generous person, here it is:
My rare gift is my reality, my world. My reality consists of free love to any one I let in. This includes not just good sex, but incredible sex where I would actually like to make a woman's fantasy come true. In my reality there is mutual respect. No one is judged or accused in my reality, this means that women are free to tell me their most erotic fantasies without me accusing them of being sluts or perverts. I love to pleasure and spoil women, like giving sensual massages and cooking romantic dinners for them. I love being intimate with women, doesn't just have to be sex. I love to make women feel good. I will always listen and try to help the women in my world whenever they would need it. I genuinely care for and love all the women in my life. They can get love and intimacy from me whenever they want (if I have free time).
I also have rules that people need to follow. I don't let just anyone into my world, women need to qualify first. I will not tolerate manipulation or disrespect by anyone. Violation of these and other rules will result in first a warning and then being ejected out of my world if violations persist.
Now that I showed you my “reality”, it’s time for you to develop your own.
Realize that this section is designed to boost your self-confidence, find out more about yourself and realize that you have something of value to women. It will also help you figure out what qualities you are looking for in women. This is absolutely essential in PU.
Razorjack
Razorjack: Attraction and Rapport
Let's discuss a little PU theory.
Almost all of the top PUAs in the world will agree that consistent success in PU requires both attraction and rapport being established. The major difference between the methods is HOW attraction and rapport are established.
I can’t count the number of times I’ve heard inexperienced guys asking others what went wrong in their PU attempts. Now that’s good, this is the only way you learn and improve, by asking questions and getting feedback. What’s bad is that a lot of the times they will receive complete bullshit advice like, there wasn’t enough attraction or rapport established.
I mean how do you establish attraction and rapport? You really can’t MAKE anyone feel anything let alone attraction or rapport. And yet a lot of guys will focus just on doing this. Attraction and rapport are only her REACTIONS in response to your ACTIONS. So rather than focus on creating those reactions, I focus on my actions. Does this make sense?
I know a lot of guys will say stuff like “But in the attraction stage I use things like attraction routines, negs, DHV, etc and in the rapport stage I use stories, etc.”
IMO these things are just bandages and alleviation for symptoms of a larger disease.
I’m the most successful PUA I know in real life. And guess what?
I don’t use any routines, negs, DHV, etc. Those of you who have read my contributions on mASF know that I assume both attraction and rapport when I PU. I don’t even think about these things, but after closer examination of my method you’ll see that I trigger both attraction and rapport from my personality and way of interacting automatically. This is also part of RJM and I will get into it more of how this is done later on.
For now just understand that attraction and rapport are not things that you need to consciously create, it can be done just by being yourself.
Razorjack
Razorjack: Attaction
OK, let’s talk about one of my strongest skills: ATTRACTION
What’s funny is that I don’t do anything out of the ordinary to generate attraction. I’m fairly good looking, but there are much better looking guys than me around. I don’t have the body of a Greek God. I make a decent living, but I’m not the richest guy around. I don’t use C&F, negs or other attraction routines. So how am I doing it?
First of all remember what I wrote earlier in that you can’t MAKE anyone feel attraction. As soon as you try and make someone feel attraction for you, you become unattractive. Why?
Because attractive people KNOW they are already attractive and don’t try to attract anyone, it comes automatically. So as soon as you try and attract someone then you start behaving like an unattractive person. Confusing and counter-intuitive isn’t it? :)
OK, so now that you understand that you shouldn’t try and attract someone, how do you become an attractive person?
Well remember when we talked about how women are attracted to guys at the top of the “social ladder”?
Well I take on all of the qualities of the guys at the top of this “social ladder.” I radiate that I am one of these guys.
If you ever seen a celebrity, professional athlete, self-made millionaire or any of these other desirable people interact in ordinary environments, you will notice that they behave in very different ways than ordinary people.
For instance, a lot of guys talk about how they need to be in a high-energy state in order to PU chicks. Imagine someone like Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise when they want to meet chicks. Do you think they get all high-energy and stupidly excited to an artificial state that they normally would never be in just so they could PU chicks?
OK, here it comes, I know what you’re thinking:
“But these guys are famous, everyone knows who they are!!”
OK then let’s replace them with a professional athlete, someone that not all chicks know about. This person just radiates something special and everyone picks up on that, whether they know who he is or not. It’s all in his attitude and behavior.
He is relaxed and confident. He is not out trying to prove anything to anyone. Nor does he care what other people think about him. Why not?
What can a person nowhere near his skills or stage in life, do for him? Do you think Tiger Woods (Pro golf player) worries about what a weekend hacker (amateur golf player) thinks of his golf swing, abilities, etc?
Do you think Bill Gates, the founder and owner of Microsoft, is worried about what a computer hacker wannabe thinks of his company’s products?
Do you think Brad Pitt worries about what some aspiring amateur thinks about his acting skills?
Would you worry about what some 45-year old virgin thinks of your PU skills? Hell no! He’s beneath you and has nothing to offer except a worthless opinion.
Now go back to the “social ladder” and think about the guys at the very top. Do they worry about the opinions of others below them? Nope! Those opinions are totally worthless to them.
Do they worry about social rules, implications and consequences? Nope! Why not, you ask?
Think about who make those social rules to begin with. It’s these guys up at the very top, that make these “rules” and everyone else follows them. Everyone else wants to be like them and wants their approval.
Understand that masculine is attracted to feminine and feminine is attracted to masculine. Of course there are exceptions, but we’ll limit this to PU purposes.
So these guys up at the top of the “social ladder”, who don’t give a shit about the “social ladder” to begin with, are the masculine ideals for western societies.
Now think about the ordinary chumps or AFCs that worry about what others think of them, worry about their image, that don’t want to be looked down upon by others, worried about if women find them attractive or not, etc. So they do what is “socially correct”, in order to be accepted by others, they try to “fit in”, they don’t want to be the outsider, they want to be higher up on the “social ladder”, etc. In essence these guys behave like women! They are feminine by behavior!
Now I told you that feminine is attracted to masculine. Do you need to work out why chicks aren’t attracted to these AFCs?
So the moral of this story is don’t be a male-bitch! Be one of the guys at the very top of the “social ladder.”
Easier said then done, but I just showed you the path.
So now I can leave you with an appropriate quote from the movie “The Matrix” in the scene where Neo has just rescued Morpheus from the agents and Trinity from the falling helicopter, but still doesn’t believe he is The One. Morpheus says to Neo:
“Sooner or later, you’re going to realize just as I did…There‘s a difference between knowing the path……and walking the path.”
Now I just showed you the path, it will take some time, but believe me boys, when you start “walking the path”, not only will you know it but so will everyone else. And you’ll never be the same again!
Razorjack
Razorjack: Rapport
To me, rapport is when your target feels comfortable around you, trusts you and feels a connection with you.
It’s vital for rapport to be created in order to be consistently successful in PU.
However just like attraction, you cannot MAKE anyone feel rapport. You cannot MAKE anyone feel comfortable around you nor can you MAKE anyone trust you. And you definitely cannot MAKE anyone feel a connection with you.
As soon as you try to make someone trust you, you behave like someone who cannot be trusted. Imagine a used car salesman you just met telling you:
“There’s nothing wrong with this car. Absolutely nothing at all! Trust me!”
The first thing you’ll think is “OK, what’s wrong with this car?”
The same if you try to make some one feel comfortable around you. Think back to when you were alone with a girl and she was nervous. You try to calm her down by saying “It’s OK, just relax, it’ll be all right.”
Then the chick immediately starts thinking “Why? What’s he going to do to me?”
As soon as you try to make someone feel comfortable around you is when you start to make people nervous.
You’ll get pretty much the same way results if you try to make someone feel a connection with you.
Again just as with attraction, it’s confusing and counter-intuitive, isn’t it?
So now the million-dollar question:
How do we create the trust, comfort and connection with our targets?
Just as emulating the qualities of attractive people generates attraction, rapport is generated by emulating the qualities of people we trust, feel comfortable around and have a connection with.
So let’s take a look at how we behave around our family, good friends and lovers. These are people we have rapport with. Then we’ll compare that with people we don’t have rapport with, namely strangers.
Let’s start with trust and comfort.
Have you ever observed how 2 strangers talk to each other?
They stand face to face with some distance in between them. That distance is what society refers to as “personal space.” We are taught from early childhood to respect the personal space of others. Strangers make sure they don’t get into the other's personal space. The topic of discussion is usually something neutral and serious. You also noticed that they are tense around each other and not completely relaxed. They are usually concerned about saying the right thing and not offending the other or doing something that will leave a bad impression on the other. And they definitely aren’t touching each other.
Now compare this with how 2 best friends or lovers interact with each other. They stand or sit next to each other. They’re in each other’s personal spaces. They’re completely relaxed and comfortable around each other. The topic of discussion is usually personal, it could be very serious or humorous. They might be cracking jokes and having fun together. These 2 aren’t worried about saying the right thing or doing something that will leave a bad impression, because they already know each other. And if they’re lovers then they certainly aren’t afraid of touching or getting sensual with each other.
If you want your target to feel trust and comfort around you then you have to behave like someone she could trust and feel comfortable around. That means you have to get in her personal space. You can’t be worried about saying the wrong thing or leaving a bad impression. You have to touch her, talk about personal things with her, laugh and have fun with her and most importantly, you have to relax and be comfortable yourself around her.
You have to behave exactly as her lover would behave around her.
Now let’s discuss this thing called connection. A connection is something you feel towards someone that you believe knows and understands you and you know and understand that person.
So in order to have a connection with your target, you have to get to know and understand her and she has to get to know and understand you.
How do we do this?
I call it qualifying. Qualifying is finding out if your target has the qualities you are looking for. In order to do this you have to first know what qualities you are looking for in a woman. This is one of the questions from the Natural Game –Basics section.
So how do we go about qualifying? How do you find out if women have the qualities you are looking for?
The biggest mistake I see most guys do is asking women straight out without getting specific. For instance, I read about a lot of guys who go around asking women if they are adventurous. So what is adventurous?
Suppose you are buying a used car. Not that I’m comparing picking up women to buying a used car! :)
But this is just to show demonstrate where guys go wrong when trying to get to know a woman.
OK so you see a car that you like and you talk to the salesman. Now do you just ask him straight out if everything is OK with the car?
No of course not! Because if you do, he will just say “Yes” and you will learn nothing about the car. Following the same line of thinking, it’s like asking the salesman if he’s trustworthy. Ridiculous.
Instead you want to find out everything about the car that you can so there are no hidden surprises after you already paid for it. You want a clear demonstration that the car is fully functional.
Getting back to PU, you need to know what specific qualities you are looking for, then you give her a chance to demonstrate those qualities.
So if you, like me, enjoy traveling and want to know if she likes doing the same then talk about traveling and let her do the same. For example, talk about some of your most memorable trips and let her talk about hers.
Tell stories in VIVID details, paint up scenarios and pictures for her to imagine herself in. The more details that you can put up, the better she'll be able to understand what you're talking about, the better she'll be able to understand you and the easier she'll be able to connect with you. Which is exactly what you want.
When you qualify like this and get down to specific details, you will start to see her for the unique creature she is. The best part is she will want to do the same with you, when she sees that you are not asking the same old boring crap that most guys talk about, “Where you from?”, “What do you do? “, etc.
Now when she understands that you are getting to know her for who she is, that you are trying to connect with her, she is able to trust you and feels comfortable around you, then she will feel a connection with you. And if you add her feeling attraction for you into the equation, then she will feel a sexual connection with you.
Razorjack
Razorjack: Putting it all together
Now that I’ve given you the basic knowledge, it’s time to put it all together into your very own style.
Now I don’t care how you go about implementing Razorjack Method because you have to adapt it to suit your personality, but you must have certain things in place if you’re going to be successful in PU.
First of all you need to establish attraction and this you do by being at the top of the social ladder as described in “V. Natural Game – Attraction.” If you are going to be an attractive person then you must take on the qualities and attributes of people who are already on top of the social ladder. You have to make these a part of you.
It will take time, but when you get it right, you will see just how easy and effortless it is to attract women. You ever hear women say that some guy is attractive and sexy, but they don’t why? They say that he just has “it.” Well I truly believe that this is the “it” they are talking about.
OK, the next the thing is you need to approach your target. Sure some women will approach you, but most won’t and you won’t get anywhere with a woman unless you’re interacting with her.
So now you approach your target. How do you want to approach her? What do YOU need to feel in the approach?
Me personally, I need to feel the sexual tension in the approach. So I approach in a way that creates sexual tension and that is by touching her and letting her know that I’m interested in her right from the beginning. I want her to know why I’m talking to her. This is what excites me and this is what I NEED to feel or I just won’t continue because I’ll get bored.
Now you may not need to feel sexual tension like I do, maybe you would rather be mysterious in the beginning. In that case you don’t need to open as boldly as I do, you can be a bit more neutral with your approach.
It really doesn’t matter HOW you approach as long as you are doing what you WANT to do and NOT something that you THINK she will find acceptable. You have to remember that someone on top of the social ladder is not going to worry about how the other person sees them or looking for their approval.
Think of someone like James Bond or Brad Pitt approaching a woman. How would he go about it?
Would he be all shy, timid, and worried about this woman accepting him?
No of course not! He knows that if this one doesn’t want him there are plenty of other women that do! So he is just going to approach this person with the intention of finding out if she is the type of woman that he wants.
OK so you open and she’s receptive. Now what?
Well now it’s all about trust, comfort and connection that you read about in “Natural Game – Rapport”.
Be relaxed around her, touch her, be close to her, talk about personal things, get to know her for who she REALLY is, etc.
Remember that in order to PU successfully you have to behave like her lover. This means that you have to escalate, you cannot rely on her to do it for you. You cannot hesitate when you get an opening, you must keep it moving forward.
The way to do this is actually very simple. You first get her comfortable with your presence and you touching her. Then you escalate and wait till she’s comfortable with that. Then you escalate and wait till she’s comfortable with that. Then you escalate and wait till she’s comfortable with that, etc. If at anytime she objects when you escalate, then just take a step back, relax and try again later.
A quick recap:
The whole idea here is to do 2 things at the same time and in parallel with each other:
1. Use your body language, attitude and verbal skills to spark attraction and rapport.
2. Physically escalating, i.e. from neutral kino to moving closer to looking deep in her eyes to smelling her neck and hair to kissing etc.
Now the reason why I believe that PU is NOT a series of steps, but rather a dynamic method, is that there are a lot of different things happening at the same time. You are NOT trying to attract women, instead you use your body language, attitude and confidence to assume that attraction already exists. You do not TRY and create rapport with the woman you’re talking to, you BEHAVE like a person she already has rapport with. You do NOT try to FAKE a connection with a woman, you REALLY try to find out her unique qualities and FEEL a GENUINE connection.
You see that attraction, rapport and escalating are connected together Do not concern yourself over what is happening in what order, because it will change from PU to PU. They all happen in parallel to each other in a dynamic process and that is the beauty of it.
Happy hunting! :)
Now I don’t care how you go about implementing Razorjack Method because you have to adapt it to suit your personality, but you must have certain things in place if you’re going to be successful in PU.
First of all you need to establish attraction and this you do by being at the top of the social ladder as described in “V. Natural Game – Attraction.” If you are going to be an attractive person then you must take on the qualities and attributes of people who are already on top of the social ladder. You have to make these a part of you.
It will take time, but when you get it right, you will see just how easy and effortless it is to attract women. You ever hear women say that some guy is attractive and sexy, but they don’t why? They say that he just has “it.” Well I truly believe that this is the “it” they are talking about.
OK, the next the thing is you need to approach your target. Sure some women will approach you, but most won’t and you won’t get anywhere with a woman unless you’re interacting with her.
So now you approach your target. How do you want to approach her? What do YOU need to feel in the approach?
Me personally, I need to feel the sexual tension in the approach. So I approach in a way that creates sexual tension and that is by touching her and letting her know that I’m interested in her right from the beginning. I want her to know why I’m talking to her. This is what excites me and this is what I NEED to feel or I just won’t continue because I’ll get bored.
Now you may not need to feel sexual tension like I do, maybe you would rather be mysterious in the beginning. In that case you don’t need to open as boldly as I do, you can be a bit more neutral with your approach.
It really doesn’t matter HOW you approach as long as you are doing what you WANT to do and NOT something that you THINK she will find acceptable. You have to remember that someone on top of the social ladder is not going to worry about how the other person sees them or looking for their approval.
Think of someone like James Bond or Brad Pitt approaching a woman. How would he go about it?
Would he be all shy, timid, and worried about this woman accepting him?
No of course not! He knows that if this one doesn’t want him there are plenty of other women that do! So he is just going to approach this person with the intention of finding out if she is the type of woman that he wants.
OK so you open and she’s receptive. Now what?
Well now it’s all about trust, comfort and connection that you read about in “Natural Game – Rapport”.
Be relaxed around her, touch her, be close to her, talk about personal things, get to know her for who she REALLY is, etc.
Remember that in order to PU successfully you have to behave like her lover. This means that you have to escalate, you cannot rely on her to do it for you. You cannot hesitate when you get an opening, you must keep it moving forward.
The way to do this is actually very simple. You first get her comfortable with your presence and you touching her. Then you escalate and wait till she’s comfortable with that. Then you escalate and wait till she’s comfortable with that. Then you escalate and wait till she’s comfortable with that, etc. If at anytime she objects when you escalate, then just take a step back, relax and try again later.
A quick recap:
The whole idea here is to do 2 things at the same time and in parallel with each other:
1. Use your body language, attitude and verbal skills to spark attraction and rapport.
2. Physically escalating, i.e. from neutral kino to moving closer to looking deep in her eyes to smelling her neck and hair to kissing etc.
Now the reason why I believe that PU is NOT a series of steps, but rather a dynamic method, is that there are a lot of different things happening at the same time. You are NOT trying to attract women, instead you use your body language, attitude and confidence to assume that attraction already exists. You do not TRY and create rapport with the woman you’re talking to, you BEHAVE like a person she already has rapport with. You do NOT try to FAKE a connection with a woman, you REALLY try to find out her unique qualities and FEEL a GENUINE connection.
You see that attraction, rapport and escalating are connected together Do not concern yourself over what is happening in what order, because it will change from PU to PU. They all happen in parallel to each other in a dynamic process and that is the beauty of it.
Happy hunting! :)
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